from NY - USA
Life is not easy. I came from Nebraska to New York a few months ago. And
lots of things have changed. I don't know, it seems to me that it's extremely difficult to talk to girls around here. I hope
you can help me. What make girls attracted to guys? Do I need to look like a millionaire or what? I hope you will answer my
Thanks for your great website!
All the best. Your fan from New York!
the city of Love
I will be sincere with you, and I will go straight to the point. My answer from
Girls are looking for handsome, confident and sexy guys. But girls from big towns, such as Paris or New York,
are slightly different, mon ami. No doubt these girls are more difficult to seduce if you come with a small town approach.
Of course, I could say something different in order to be nice. But I am not
nice, and you know that my job is to gather facts and present them, unvarnished, to my readers. In less than one second, when
walking in a store or in a pub, Men can arouse sexual interest in Women. Or NOT. I am sure that many girls are looking at
you, mon ami, because you have what they need. But... you have to work on your style and the way you approach women at the
very beginning. Get more subtle and confident. Have a look at a few romantic comedies to understand better feminine values
and what girls are looking for in a guy.
When a girl is looking at you, do you appear in her top 5 sexy guys, or does
your competition? If you're listed but not within the first two or five in
her instant results, YOU LOSE. No matter how many efforts you can do further on.
In general, Girls like Men who do sports, are active, are not too possessive
and who make them laugh! AFCH: Active, Fit, Confident, Humor. It's not that difficult, but most guys blew it from the very
beginning because they are acting like braggarts. Why? Because they are not confident. If you're really good, you don't have
to shout it on the roof. I suggest that you talk less and listen more. As long as a girl hasn't touched you twice, don't do
anything because in the end, Man decides, the Woman makes him decide. You need to perceive Sexy signals before moving in.
Make sure the girls feel they are important 200%, and let them think they are getting their own way. Got it?
And for heaven's sake: stop acting. Be yourself, mon ami. Because girls are looking
for the real Andy!
If you want to know how to make anyone crazy about you, look at the success guide "The French Secrets".
Your French Coach,
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About the author: Doc Lamour is a famous dating expert and resides in Paris, the city of love.